Jesus offers us an insightful lesson in patience and self-control in today’s gospel, particularly, when confronted with the mounting aggression and plotting of the Pharisees. Recognising that their hearts and minds were closed, He chose to withdraw. How often do we find ourselves in similar situations with family, friends, or colleagues, where disagreements arise, emotions run high, and no one is willing to budge from their point of view? If I am honest, I too can be guilty of such behaviour. However, if we persist in pushing our agenda, we too might encounter closed minds and hearts, making no progress.
By looking to Jesus on how to react in these situations, we can practise self-control and patience before responding. Sometimes, this can be as simple as taking a small pause or trying to put ourselves in the other person’s shoes before replying. It’s not always easy, but it helps.
Because of their closed minds borne of intolerance and hardened hearts, Jesus was unable to win over the Pharisees. No matter what He said or did, their sole aim was to eliminate Him. Matthew draws from the Old Testament, quoting Isaiah to describe Jesus’ mission and person. By withdrawing, Jesus, in His humility, infuses divine love and mercy, showing understanding and compassion rather than contempt. Instead of discouraging those who are fainthearted or bruised by life’s challenges, He provides them with hope, courage and the strength to endure.
For us today, no matter our trials, failures, or weaknesses, Jesus’ mercy, love and compassion are always available to those who seek them. His grace is sufficient for every moment, every situation, and every challenge we face. With Jesus, we are never alone or without hope.
by Colleen Tracey